But the lovingkindness of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who [reverently] fear Him, and His righteousness to children’s children, to those who honor and keep His covenant, and remember to do His commandments [imprinting His word on their hearts]. Psalm 103:17,18 (AMP)
Village
- Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
- Authority to lead is yours as parents; don’t drop the ball.
- Your voice has great influence.
- Deuteronomy 6:5-7
- Home is the first place in exhibiting God’s love, character, virtue, and nature.
Original
- Each child is an original. Principles are the same, yet it is not one-size-fits-all.
- Ephesians 5:1,2
- Psalm 139:16
Ingredient
- Love — God has placed you together. He will show you how to grow; ask Him.
- Discipline — Follow through; do not discourage (Col 3:21). Balance (Pr 23:13).
- Guidance — Teach your child about life (Deut 6). Allow mistakes; in love’s view.
Consistent
- Mom and Dad together on issues (kids cannot think they can overrule the other).
- Meals together, spending time together, create traditions.
- Kids spell love T.I.M.E. – Pray together. Encourage child in all things and in the Lord.
Error
- We are clothed in humanity’s limitations. We will fall short and make mistakes.
- Admit it.
- Say you’re sorry for _________ (state it). Ask for forgiveness.
- Grace influences our hearts and is reflected in our lives.
- 2 Timothy 3:14-15
Our job as parents is not just to fight the culture but also to teach our kids to see through its shallowness and the motives of those who shape it.” ~ Ron Luce
Deborah Somjak 